The Importance of Sex Education
You may be faced by dilemmas regarding your own sexual values and behavior. At a certain point in your life, you begin to ask yourself if it is okay to feel this way or look this way. When this time comes, young women may need basic information regarding their bodies and sexual function. You may not admit this but you do need reassurance so that you may know yourself more and feel more accepted.
So you start asking about sex but may feel that most of your family members and peers will not understand anyway. You need help in certain things like deciding on the right partner or deciding on the best form of contraceptive to use. Be open to advice from a counselor or a reliable friend. This may not always be easy but communicating with people who care about you will be a good way to start your life as a young responsible woman. You need not stop going out with friends or meeting men. It is part of being a woman. Enjoy this time of your life but be responsible.
Q: Is knowing too much about sex a bad thing?
A: You may fear that knowing too much about sex may actually increase your curiosity. It is natural for you to feel this way. As you become more mature and independent, you may feel anxious of your newfound sexual feelings. Try to understand that you can feel confused when this happens. Knowing a lot about sex from information provided by a mature person will be able to help you. Just be responsible with the information that you have. Doctors, teachers and counselors are willing to clarify what you already know about sex. Do not be afraid that you might be judged or misunderstood when you start asking questions. Such information can help you understand yourself more.
Q: Is it okay to openly discuss sexual concerns with family members?
A: It is normal for young women to feel embarrassed or ashamed when discussing matters concerning sex with parents, siblings and other family members. At one point, this may lead you to pull yourself away from your family, resulting in more time spent with friends and peers. Our friends may not always be able to help answer our questions regarding sexual behaviors, values and relationships. Your friends may mean well but they may also be undergoing the same anxieties and dilemmas as you. During this time, you may be anxious and confused. It is wise to discuss sexual matters with a family member who is open and trustworthy. They can help reassure you not to be embarrassed or guilty about your thoughts and feelings.
Q: Why do I feel embarrassed to ask questions regarding sex?
A: It is normal and natural to feel embarrassed when it comes to discussing sexuality. In some cultures, sex may be readily discussed but in others, topics on sex and sexuality are not appropriate for everyday conversations. Just be open to discuss sex with a responsible and mature person who may be able to help. In time, you will be more mature and feel more at ease in asking or answering these questions. So don’t hurry. It’s okay to feel uncomfortable about this from time to time.
